As I sit here writing this… I own three hair salons and have two inches of gray roots. Whyyyyyyy?
It’s a little embarrassing, honestly. But also incredibly relatable. Even though I live and breathe beauty and self-care every day, life still gets in the way. Appointments get pushed, rescheduled, or forgotten altogether—and suddenly, I’m dodging mirrors and praying I don’t run into anyone I know at the grocery store.
We all do this. We let the chaos of life take the front seat and put ourselves at the bottom of the list. But here’s the thing: when we neglect the small rituals that help us feel confident and polished, it ripples into other areas of our lives. We might shy away from social events or avoid that spontaneous invite because we “don’t feel like ourselves.” Or we scramble last minute, trying to get squeezed in for a root touch-up or facial before a big event—only to find our favorite stylist or esthetician is booked solid.
Sound familiar?
That’s why pre-booking your hair and skincare appointments isn’t just a smart move—it’s a form of self-respect. It’s a way of saying, I matter. I’m worth the time. I choose to show up fully.
Looking and feeling your best isn’t about vanity—it’s about confidence. When we’re put together, we carry ourselves differently. We make bolder decisions. We connect more freely. We stop hiding.
So let’s stop waiting until we’re desperate. Let’s stop putting off the things that make us feel like us. Pre-booking ensures you always have your favorite stylist or esthetician reserved just for you. It gives you something to look forward to. And it removes one more stressor from your already full plate.
Let this be your sign: go ahead and book that next appointment (or two). Your future self will thank you.
❤️ Hillary
